"He gives himself many orgasms but none for me!"masturbated alot, and gave himself many orgasms and none for me, that's cool, I have too. But I think he is addicted to masturbating, I asked him if he still does and he was open and honest about it.
He says not anymore, I truly want to believe him but research from what little i found was that a man gets a high from doing it himself, he has let himself go into me once after 6 months the other times we go a very long time making love because of the tantra we can both stop the ejaculation process (i Know that's great).
But he can't ejaculate in me or even when he is still hard or has to pull out because he looses his hardness it becomes limp, Of course i don't feel like I'm sexually attracted to him but i know i am by the way he touches and loves me, he uses the excuse of being tired or that maybe he's not use to me i say bull crap! not to him though.